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This is the month! I am SO excited to announce that I will be donating 100% of the proceeds from A Slice of Style through the month of August to Jared and VoNique Myers to help them raise money for their infertility treatments. They are really wonderful people that I got to know in my old neighborhood. I’m really excited to wake up every morning to find great deals to share with you all, while also benefiting them. This is a cause that is dear to my heart since my husband and I have been trying to start our family as well.

How can you help? Simply go through A Slice of Style when you are purchasing ANYTHING online. I have links for most retailers on the right hand side of my blog, and anything you purchase through those links will give me a commission. 100% of the commission will go to them! Just shop as you normally would and you will be doing some good!! PLEASE share with your friends and family any great deal that I post as well if you think they may be interested in it. I will be posting every day. If you are shopping at an online retailer and don’t see the link here, please email me and I’ll send it to you. This fundraiser makes me nervous because I can’t do it on my own…and I don’t think I have to 🙂 THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for helping me to share it as far as we can.

If you don’t want to shop and just want to donate a few dollars, you can do that as well. I have set up a Go Fund Me account here. Anything helps, no matter how big or small!

Here is their story, written by VoNique:


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Jared and I got married in April of
2002. We had been married for about a
year when we decided we wanted to start trying to have children. The following few years we didn’t have any
luck, but we weren’t overly concerned by the fact that it hadn’t happened for
us yet. 



As time went on, we started doing
more research on the most optimal conditions for conceiving a child.  However, it wasn’t until we’d been married
about 5 years that a sense of urgency ignited within me. My mother passed away
unexpectedly in January of 2007.  I was
hit with the reality of mortality. Over
time I came to terms with the fact that my mom w
ouldn’t be there to share in
the excitement of my future pregnancy, to hold my baby, to help take care of me
as I recovered, to proudly put her arm around me during my baby’s blessing, to
help babys
it, or to spoil my children rotten like I know she would have. I had no choice but to become okay with
giving up those expectations, and I settled for the goal of having at least one
picture of one of my children with one of my parents.  My mom was only 65 when she passed away and
my father was already 71.  A timer had
started and I didn’t know how long it was set for. 
We started seeing fertility doctors
and running all sorts of uncomfortable tests and procedures. They never have been able to find anything
wrong with either of us. I had been
given a lot of unsolicited advice over the years, but now I started really paying
attention to it. I wrote it all down,
both traditional and non-traditional medical approaches, and we just started
going down the list. It took us years to
go through it all. There were so many
medications, miracle creams, vitamin supplements, acupuncture techniques,
doctor recommendations, and unusual techniques of all kinds that people swore
by for conceiving a child. I woke up in
the middle of the night for three years to take my temperature. In addition to our regular consistent prayers
and scripture study, I fasted and attended the temple weekly for over 8 months
and Jared even longer than that, I’m sure. (The temple is a place of worship and peace in our church). We counseled with our bishop (local church leader) and received multiple blessings. We completed 4 rounds of artificial
insemination and attempted several others unsuccessfully.     
One of the most common pieces of
advice you get when trying so hard to accomplish a goal that’s largely outside
of your control is to just stop trying. So, we did that, too—for many years. 
We attended an adoption orientation
with the intent to sign up, but I have never received a more clear “no” answer
to a prayer before in my life.  I don’t
know if it was a “not ever” or just “not now.” 
I guess time will tell.  We also
attended two different infertility seminars; and, although we are not opposed
to doing in vitro, we just hoped it wouldn’t have to come to that. I know multiple people that have done in
vitro multiple times and had it not work for them. The idea of putting $15,000 to $20,000 or
more into something, along with giving myself shots every day and the physical
pain associated with the procedure—and especially making such a major emotional
investment into something, and then to have it not work—brings me to tears just
thinking about it.  But we haven’t ruled
it out, and have been saving towards it, nonetheless.  And, despite our reluctance to continue the
scavenger hunt to track down all of our medical records from all of the
different doctors over the past 12-13 years in order to schedule an official in
vitro consultation, it’s looking more and more like this will be the next step
for us.
In the midst of our above attempts,
I had to trade in my goal of ever having a picture of one of my parents holding
one of my children in this lifetime, and settle for the knowledge that my
parents are holding my children for me now, and helping them get ready to come
to this earth when the time is best for everyone involved.  I wish I knew the reason for the delay.  But I know that Heavenly Father knows, and
that’s enough for me. I know they’ll
come. Of this I do not doubt. I have received divine promises confirming
such. I don’t know exactly when or how,
but I know the Lord keeps His promises if I’ll do my part.  I have received answers to so many eternally
insignificant prayers over the years, and if Heavenly Father is mindful of
those, of course He is mindful of the weightier matters of my heart.            
I served with Jenica Parcell in our
church for a couple of years.  Although
we’ve spent very little time together outside of church, I got to know her well
enough to know that she is an amazing woman, doing her best to live a
faith-filled life despite her own struggle with infertility.  She moved away a while ago, but recently
contacted me with her idea of wanting to host a fund raiser for someone who
also struggles with infertility, but does not have the same insurance benefits
that she’s been blessed with.  I was so
incredibly touched by her offer; but my initial inclination was to decline,
since it’s not like I’ve been thrilled at the idea of in vitro and just too
poor to afford it.  But I felt instead
like I should just explain to her our circumstances and then leave the decision
up to her.  And she said she’s sure about
her decision to host this for us!  So
here we are!  She has offered to donate
the proceeds of her blog commission from the month of August to help fund our
efforts to grow our family.  And, no
matter how much or little this project brings in, I’ll be forever and deeply
touched by her thoughtfulness, and willingness to do what’s within her power to
help ease the burden of another.  The
world needs more people like that.  God
works miracles through people like that.  


________________



I am completely humbled that God has given me this opportunity to help raise money for this couple. Please email me ([email protected]) if you have any questions, and again, thank you for helping me with this fundraiser for these two people who will be wonderful parents one day. 


SPECIAL THANKS to Tosha Seeholzer of Hello Tosha for the graphic that you can help share at the top of this page! She is an extremely talented woman. Visit her Web site here 🙂 
            

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  1. Jennifer says

    August 2, 2015 at 9:56 pm

    Jenica, you are doing a wonderful thing! Our family loves Jared and VoNique! They will be amazing parents. Thank you for bringing us together to help make that possible.

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 4, 2015 at 12:34 pm

      Thank you for your support, Jennifer! I really appreciate it 🙂 xo

      Reply
  2. (Nicole) The Very Hungry Caterpillar says

    August 2, 2015 at 10:53 pm

    Love you Vo! I was deeply touched reading yours and jareds story. It truly breaks my heart because no other two people could I imagine being better parents than the two of you. I love your faith and knowing that having faith in the Lord includes faith in His timing. You are in my prayers… and I am a great online shopper! I may have to buy a little extra this month in support of you two…. it is the least I can do 😉 Much love, nicole

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 4, 2015 at 12:34 pm

      Thank you so much for your comment and support!! xo

      Reply
  3. Erin Fairchild says

    August 3, 2015 at 1:34 am

    This is amazing Jenica! Sending big hugs your and VoNique's way!

    Her Heartland Soul
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    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 4, 2015 at 12:33 pm

      Thank you for your support, Erin! You are such a sweetheart!

      Reply
  4. Anonymous says

    August 3, 2015 at 9:36 pm

    Jenica: I have been following your blog since day one, and your sweetness just jumps off my computer screen every day and makes me smile…you are a treasure, so this fundraising campaign does not surprise me. I already donated on your GoFundme page, bought one of the rings from the Etsy shop, and will be sure to use you blog to make my purchases during August. Consider yourself hugged by me all the way from Pennsylvania…I went through infertility and IVF shots back in the day 25 years ago before any insurance companies helped out or before the medicines and protocol was perfected to today's standards so I feel your pain and your friends' pain in a personal and profound way…I kept reminding myself that I was a pioneer in that journey and my experiences would help couples in the future…it was hard, painful, expensive, and for me…never resulted in a baby, but God was good through it all and we adopted our son almost 22 years ago and he is a treasure beyond all blessings! God always has a plan…keep the faith…keep smiling…and stay strong! Please write me if I can ever help or you need to talk. Blessings and love, Susan Biddle [email protected]

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 4, 2015 at 12:33 pm

      What a wonderful message to wake up to!! Sometimes we need to hear things like this and you are an answer to prayer. Thank you so much. I really appreciate you taking the time and effort to support me…someone you have never met in person but are so willing to extend love to. What a wonderful person you are!! Thank you!

      Reply
  5. Anonymous says

    August 13, 2015 at 3:13 pm

    As someone who has had to deal with infertility for years I feel I'm obligated to tell everyone of the blessing we received. The company I work for covers infertility treatments completely with no max of attempts. Bank of America. You only have to work 20 hours or more to qualify for insurance and it starts within 30 days. We now have two amazing ivf babies and have no debt from it. If you know of anyone who needs fertility treatments working for this company is a blessing!

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 17, 2015 at 12:49 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing! That's amazing!

      Reply
  6. A GAL NEEDS says

    August 15, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    Wow, I am very impressed and touched that you are working together to do this. Also, on my page I have a GoFundMe bi-weekly feature, and I'd be happy to put your cause up on my sidebar! I wish you both much success in your worthy desires and know that it will happen!

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      August 17, 2015 at 12:49 pm

      Thank you so much!! That would be amazing if you could do that! I really appreciate it 🙂

      xo

      Reply
  7. Merrick says

    September 2, 2015 at 5:26 pm

    VoNique and Jared were in our ward years ago (the same one where we met Rachel and Drew, actually). I just saw this over on her facebook — What an amazing, generous, and selfless fundraiser. You are amazing!

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      September 3, 2015 at 2:58 am

      Thank you so much! You are so sweet. We were in that ward also and I have NO IDEA how we didn't meet you guys! We were in the primary for a long time so maybe that's why? So strange; I wish I would have! I absolutely love your blog and really want to try your sewing course. You are so talented!

      Reply
  8. Angela R says

    February 14, 2018 at 8:49 pm

    I am sorry to say this, but it’s really insensitive to host a fundraiser for people who admit they are not “too poor to afford” IVF. You should consider helping someone who can’t afford it. This breaks my heart. I learned today that IVF is my only option and we cannot afford it. You seem to be passionate about helping people.

    Reply
    • Jenica Parcell says

      February 15, 2018 at 3:49 pm

      Angela – I am SO confused by your comment. These people who are applying for our grants CANNOT afford IVF. We have an application process that they go through our nonprofit that proves they do not have sufficient funds to go through the process.

      Reply

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